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The F**k-it List -

We all have that one person we text who takes three business days to respond with a "lol." Life is too short to be the only person keeping a connection on life support. If they aren't matching your energy, put that obligation on the F**k-It List and move on. 4. End the "Hustle" Obsession

k-It List?**

You can be the juiciest peach in the world, and there will still be someone who hates peaches. Trying to win over your critics is a treadmill to nowhere. Put "being liked by everyone" at the very top of your F**k-It List. The F**k-It List

While a Bucket List is about what you want to add to your life, a F**k-It List is about what you’re finally ready to let go of . It’s a manifesto of liberation. It’s the art of strategic apathy. We all have that one person we text

"I should enjoy hiking." "I should read more classic literature." "I should be more of a morning person."If you’ve spent a decade trying to like something just because it seems "better," put it on the list. If you hate kale, stop eating kale. If you’d rather watch a Rotten Tomatoes certified "rotten" comedy than a three-hour historical epic, do it. Your free time isn't a performance. 3. Release the One-Sided Friendships End the "Hustle" Obsession k-It List

When you stop caring about the things that don't matter, you finally have the energy for the things that do.